Elton John's Tragic Real-Life Story

Sir Elton John's music might not be the heaviest in the world, but don't take that to mean the man is a lightweight. As one of the most popular performers in the world, he has spent decades as the top dog, and that's not the kind of life you win in a lottery. It takes talent, dedication, hard work, and sacrifice. Perhaps more than anything, it takes the ability to cope with the many, many tragedies that will line the road to success.

The artist they call the Rocket Man is no exception. He has faced countless hurdles to become the global superstar he is today. Some of his problems have been personal, others professional. Others still have been completely out of his reach, yet directed at him — or rather, the public's idea of him. The artist formerly known as Reginald Dwight has taken it all, and while he's still standing, he would probably be the first to tell you that his road to success has by no means been an easy one. This is the tragic real story of Elton John.

Sir Elton John and his husband, David Furnish (above), have been together for 25 years, and according to Harper's Bazaar, they still trade weekly love letters. However, sources close to the singer whisper that there are also less cutesy aspects to their relationship. In 2015, News Corp Australia reported that Furnish had essentially taken control of John's life, which caused some serious problems due to his inexperience in the fine art of superstar management. Many of John's trusty longtime staff have either resigned or been fired because of the situation, which has confused matters even further. Furnish is thought to be responsible for many of the embarrassing PR gaffes John has suffered in recent years, and there are even rumors that he's the reason Capitol Records — John's longtime label — decided to drop the artist.

In 2016, further reports about Furnish surfaced, as tabloids started running stories about an alleged longtime affair with businessman Daniel Laurence. According to Global News, the stories described unprotected trysts and even a threesome in a kiddie pool filled with olive oil. To be fair, though, this might not technically mean that Furnish was cheating on his famous husband. John has said that the two are in an open marriage, and in fact went so far to protect his husband that he secured a controversial court-ordered injunction that stops the notoriously scandal-happy British tabloids from even mentioning their names.

Sir Elton John might be a legend in the music industry, but his other legendary trait might be his tendency to throw tantrums at the slightest provocation. His fans might be invited to dance onstage with him while he plays, but he will start screaming at them or storm off the stage in anger if they venture too close, which happened in Vegas once, according to the Telegraph. After that he stopped inviting people on stage.

Don't think that John reserves all of his diva antics for the common man, either. If you're a famous person who he doesn't particularly like, he'll let you know. Through the years, he has called Madonna a fairground stripper and a lip-syncer (and worse things). The bad blood didn't dissipate until 2013, when the two happened to visit the same restaurant and John took a moment to apologize and buy her dinner. Of course, Madonna isn't even the most powerful entity John has decided to take on. The Guardian recalls an incident from the singer's hazier days when a storm woke him up, and he called his people to demand that they do something about ... the weather.

According to the Telegraph, Sir Elton John and his partner at the time were in the preliminary therapy stage of getting sober in 1990. When they were asked to write a list of the other's worst faults as part of the process, John's partner wrote: "Elton does drugs, he's alcoholic, he's bulimic, he has terrible fits of rage." The singer, in turn, came up with this: "Hugh never puts his CDs away tidily."

Strange obsession with neat CD stacks aside, the fact that John's bulimia was called out along with his more famous faults was not an accident. Eating Disorder Hope says the singer struggled with the disorder for 16 years, telling himself it was nothing serious and thinking he could fix the issue on his own. He only got rid of bulimia once he accepted it as the serious condition it is and sought treatment for it at the same time that he kicked his cocaine addiction. The singer's battle with the eating disorder was ultimately successful, but it remained a sore point for him. UPI reports that a tabloid ran a story claiming John had relapsed in 1992 — and the artist immediately replied by suing the pants off the paper until they admitted the story was a lie.

Although it's difficult to imagine Sir Elton John as anything other than an out and proud gay man, there's no telling how long he might have stayed in the closet without a certain determined reporter. Ultimate Classic Rock says in 1976, Rolling Stone freelancer Cliff Jahr pestered John to give an interview during a pre-hiatus run of shows that had seen him largely avoid the media. Jahr had a hunch about the Rocket Man's sexuality, so he engaged the artist in an intimate conversation to see where it would go. This led to John openly musing about the nature of bisexuality and his own attraction to men.

The news caused a chaos. The impact on his record sales may not have been as huge as the press insinuated, but the news of a celebrity liking men like that was shocking, and even Walter Cronkite reported it in the evening news. Yet, despite this outing, the Rocket Man was still figuring out what he wanted (and possibly, how he wanted to be seen). In 1984, he dabbled with heterosexuality and married Renate Blauel after a flash romance. This may or may not have been an attempt to keep up appearances, and as the Telegraph notes, it is now clear that the German sound engineer probably was not the love of John's life. The couple divorced in 1988 and in the same year, John stated that he was finally comfortable with his homosexuality.

Yes, religious groups have been known to condemn Sir Elton John. Shocking, right? The singer's sexuality and notorious tendency to throw gasoline on the flames make him a prime target, though one who is happy to criticize the believers right back. According to NME, John's main beef with most religions seems to be their attitudes regarding gay people. He says it promotes the "hatred and spite" against homosexuals and goes on to opine that organized religion is a dysfunctional thing that "turns people into hateful lemmings." Though he does think there are some positive things about religion, he feels it should be banned. Of course, civilized rhetoric won't get too much press, which may be why the singer sometimes likes to go all in. As the Guardian notes, one of John's most famous jabs at religion was his 2010 comment that Jesus was a gay man. Several religious authorities protested his comments with varyingly nasty remarks, though some managed to take it in stride: A Church of England spokesman merely gave a good-natured comment that such speculations are "perhaps best left to the academics."

Of course, Christianity is not the only religion that has problems with John. As the Telegraph and the Guardian describe, the artist's concerts have drawn significant protests in majority-Muslim countries like Morocco and Malaysia.