Who Were Barack Obama's Parents?

As his own website states, former President Barack Obama didn't have a very predictable path to the White House. His mother was from Kansas, his father was from Kenya, and he was born in Honolulu, Hawaii. When his mother remarried, he left the U.S. with her and grew up in Indonesia.

"I was raised as an Indonesian child and a Hawaiian child and as a Black child and as a white child," he once said (via the Miller Center). Obama attended Catholic and Muslim schools but was raised as a nonbeliever. However, this diversity was not a hurdle in the way of his goals. In fact, it was the diversity, multi-culturalism, and open-mindedness that prompted Obama to enter a career in public service — and this is all thanks to his parents.

In August 2022, Obama inaugurated the Ann Dunnam Water Garden at the Obama Presidential Center, named after his mother. Once more, he explained the massive influence she had on him (via Twitter): "When I look at my values, that core belief in our common humanity and the inherent dignity of every person, that was instilled in me by my mother."

But there's much more to the story, an itinerant childhood, intense legal drama, and more than two parents included. So here's the whole story of Obama's parents.

In 1959, Barack Obama Sr. became the first African student to enroll at the University of Hawaii (via NPR). A year later, 17-year-old Ann Dunham became an anthropology student at the same university. Obama Sr. was studying mathematics, but the two met during a Russian class, according to Oprah Daily. As Sally H. Jacobs describes in her biography, "The Other Barack" (via NPR): "Both of them were quite taken with each other. This relationship picked up speed pretty quickly."

It really did move fast — within a few months, Dunham was pregnant, and the two got married. But easy come, easy go. Shortly after Obama's birth on August 4, 1961, Dunham took him to Seattle to be close to her family, while Obama Sr. remained in Honolulu to continue his studies. Their relationship had gone downhill very quickly, as Dunham's biographer Janny Scott told NPR's "Fresh Air," Dunham "laid down some dinner for him on the table that she had made and he looked at it and said, 'You expect me to eat this?' Picked it up and hurled it at the wall."

In 1964, Dunham filed for divorce. But even though their love story came to an end, their academic pursuits didn't. Obama Sr. went on to get a graduate fellowship in economics at Harvard University, and Dunham graduated in 1967, only to get a master's degree in Jakarta and complete a Ph.D. afterward.

Barack Obama Sr.'s life story outdoes many movies in intensity and improbable coincidences. Perhaps the most improbable are his three devastating car accidents, the last of which took his life. As per BlackPast, Obama Sr. was involved in his first car accident in 1970, and his injuries were so bad, he had to spend close to a year in a hospital.

But when he got out, he wanted to make some amends — as Sally H. Jacobs mentions in his biography (via NPR), he also had no job and his third wife was planning to leave him. So in 1971, Obama Sr. traveled to Hawaii to meet his son, Barack Jr. As Obama recalls in this Instagram post, this was a very impactful visit — and sadly, the only one.

Soon after Obama Sr. returned to Kenya, he had another car accident, and the consequences were even worse than before. He lost both his legs. Finally, on November 24, 1982, at the age of 46, Obama Sr. lost his life in a third car crash in Nairobi. It was a short and tragic end to a very tumultuous life that left his many children — including Obama — with more questions than answers.

In an interview with Oprah, Barack Obama described the great variety of ethnicities in his family via their get-togethers: "Michelle will tell you that when we get together for Christmas or Thanksgiving, it's like a little mini-United Nations. I've got relatives who look like Bernie Mac, and I've got relatives who look like Margaret Thatcher. We've got it all." Obama has a Kenyan father, a white mother born in Wichita, Kansas, a half-Indonesian half-sister (who, as Oprah reports, is married to a Chinese-Canadian), and several African siblings, per Oprah Daily.

As reported by The New York Times, Obama spoke about his ethnically diverse family during his 2008 campaign speech, shedding some valuable light on what it means to be American today (and for hundreds of years, for all that matters). But he also commented on how multi-culturalism helped him develop as a person (via the Miller Center):

"I was raised as an Indonesian child and a Hawaiian child and as a black child and as a white child. And so what I benefited from is a multiplicity of cultures that all fed me." Be it open-mindedness or a more comprehensive education, having an ethnically diverse family helped the former president grow and fulfill his goals.

In an interview with "Fresh Air" (via NPR), Ann Dunham's biographer Janny Scott shared a story about a spur-of-the-moment road trip that stands as a synecdoche for Dunham's unconventional style, even as a teen: "It was in her senior year in high school ... They were bright. They were kind of insider outsiders in that high school, kind of brainy, interested in being on the cultural cutting edge ... They were coming back from maybe a coffeehouse in Seattle, and the conversation turned to maybe we should not go home ... Ann and one friend ended up just taking the car and driving to San Francisco, which was considered a rather radical breakout for a kid from Mercer Island High School in 1959, '60."

Dunham's parents had to get them out of juvenile detention and fly them back to Washington state. But this wasn't the end of Dunham living on the edge. Her open-mindedness and curiosity for the unknown led her to become a pioneer in social work in Indonesia and Pakistan, according to Oprah Daily. She lived in several places and interacted with people from all socio-economic and cultural backgrounds. As Scott told NPR's Terry Gross, Dunham was brave and unconventional throughout her life, and this led her to great professional heights (and provided an excellent model for Obama).

As reported by The Independent, after completing a master's in anthropology, Ann Dunham went on to work for associations like the Asian Development Bank and the U.S. Agency for International Development. As per Obama, "[She] dedicated her life to understanding and improving the lives of the rural poor" (via Oprah Daily). On the forefront, Dunham was a pioneer, especially in microfinance, which aimed to help low-income women and craftspeople in the rural areas of Indonesia and Pakistan. She also supported groups opposed to military dictatorship.

But as Obama recalled in his 1995 memoir "Dreams of my Father" (via "All Things Considered"), Dunham's whole person dictated her profession: "[S]he traveled the world, working in the distant villages, helping women buy a sewing machine or a milk cow or an education that might give them a foothold in the world's economy." So Dunham became a prominent figure in international development out of a sheer passion for helping people, something that inspired Obama deeply: "What is best in me, I owe to her."

After receiving a doctorate in anthropology, Ann Dunham moved to New York and began working as a policy coordinator for Women's World Banking — as the Stanley Ann Dunham Scholarship Fund reports, her work helped shape the policies for the United Nations' Fourth World Conference on Women in Beijing in 1995.

Tragically, 1995 would also be the year Dunham would die of ovarian cancer, at the age of 52. Also in 1995, Barack Obama published his first memoir, "Dreams of my Father," but as the title suggests, the book barely focused on Dunham; in fact, as per NPR, it summarizes her life with trivial phrases like "a white anthropologist from Kansas" or "the woman who died of cancer while fighting with her insurance company at the end of her life."

Obama subsequently published a second edition where he expressed his regret over this, wishing he had written "less a meditation on the absent parent [and] more a celebration of the one who was the single constant in my life" (via NPR). Eventually, Janny Scott published "A Singular Woman," a biography that encapsulates Ann Dunham's extraordinary life and influence on Obama, in 2011.