Inside Joni Mitchell's Tragic Story

Iconoclastic and outspoken, singer Joni Mitchell has been a musical force for almost six decades. Called "one of the greatest songwriters of the past half century" by Rolling Stone, Mitchell began her career singing in tiny venues throughout Western Canada. In 1967, singer Judy Collins would score a Top 10 hit with her recording of Mitchell's "Both Sides Now," making the blonde folk singer a sought-after commodity. With her songs being covered by some of the most important artists of the era, Mitchell landed her own record deal in 1968.

Joni Mitchell's 1969 song "Woodstock" would provide the soundtrack for the Peace and Love Generation's closing years. Covered by folk rock powerhouse Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young, Mitchell's words crystallized one of the most important musical events of the 1960s into the defining cultural moment of a generation. In the 1970s, she came into her own as a performer with the critically acclaimed albums Blue and Court and Spark. Soul-baring and confessional, Mitchell's '70s work perfectly captures the melancholy of fading '60s idealism. Gracefully weathering changing public tastes through the '80s, '90s, and 2000s, the nine-time Grammy winner has fearlessly followed her muse to become one of the most beloved and respected artists of all time

With musicians as diverse as Led Zeppelin and Prince claiming her as an influence, Mitchell has had a career that most singer-songwriters dream of. However, life has not always been kind. From personal heartbreak to failing health, this is Joni Mitchell's tragic story.

Free-thinking and artistic, teenage Joni Mitchell had little use for high school. In 1979, she told Rolling Stone, "The way I saw the educational system from an early age was that it taught you what to think, not how to think." Music, dance, and the visual arts were far more important than the classes her Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, high school offered. Yet, even within the confines of an educational system she found frustrating, the budding artist and musician had one ally. "I was fortunate in the public school system to have one radical teacher," Mitchell remembers. "He was [...]  a handsome spirited man and a reverer of spirit. [...] He drew out my poetry. [...] I wrote an epic poem in class — I labored to impress him. I got it back circled in red with 'cliché, cliché.' [...] At the bottom he said, 'Write about what you know, it's more interesting.'"  Nevertheless, Mitchell flunked out of the 12th grade.  

Joni Mitchell's teen years also saw her running with a rough crowd. Fortunately, she had the foresight to escape their influence. "There also came a stage when my friends who were juvenile delinquents suddenly became criminals. They could go into very dull jobs or they could go into crime. Crime is very romantic in your youth. I suddenly thought, 'Here's where the romance ends. I don't see myself in jail...'"

While attending the Alberta College of Art, Joni Mitchell supported herself as a department store model. While pursuing her studies, she developed an interest in music and taught herself to play guitar. Soon, the struggling art student was supplementing her income performing in Alberta coffeehouses.

Around this time, Joni Mitchell had a tryst with a handsome fellow artist named Brad MacMath. Following the fling, Mitchell discovered that she was pregnant. When MacMath found out, he abandoned Mitchell and left for California. Virtually penniless and fearing her parents' scorn, she fled to Toronto to give birth to the daughter she would name Kelly Dale Anderson. Unable to provide for the child, Mitchell gave her up for adoption. It was a decision that would haunt her and influence her music for the rest of her life, per The New Yorker.

In a 2017 interview, Mitchell relates the circumstances of her pregnancy. "I was the only virgin in art school," Mitchell says. "I had been holding on to this precious thing and I kind of stupidly let it go." Music became a way for the self-proclaimed "fallen woman" to hide. "I got called out immediately, and I had to create a smokescreen. The music was not of interest. This was a trick of fate because I didn't know I had the gift." Mitchell also takes issue with a commonly reported misconception: "Let's clear up something that people assume erroneously — that I gave up my daughter to further my career. This is so wrong. There was no career."

By the end of the '60s, Joni Mitchell's star was on the rise. As her power as an artist grew, she also came into her own as a liberated woman. "I was in my mid-20s when I started to realize — with absolute exhilaration and a little fear — that my life was not going to play out on the same traditional feminine timeline as my mother and grandmothers," Mitchell told biographer David Jaffe. 

Embracing the free love movement of the era, Mitchell left a string of famous paramours in her wake. In 1967, just prior to her divorce from Chuck Mitchell, she moved to L.A.'s Laurel Canyon and began a relationship with David Crosby of Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young. Soon after, she fell for Crosby's bandmate Graham Nash (pictured above), with whom she seriously contemplated marriage. Throughout the 1970s, Mitchell was romantically linked with a number of famous men in the entertainment industry including James Taylor, Leonard Cohen, Jackson Browne, and Warren Beatty.

Along with a turbulent love life, success exposed Joni Mitchell to other excesses. In 1975, while touring with Bob Dylan's Rolling Thunder Revue, Mitchell became addicted to cocaine.  "I realized you couldn't stay on that thing straight — you'd be the only one," she explained in a 2006 interview with The Ottawa Citizen. Although the drug fueled the writing of her 1976 album Hejira, it caused Mitchell to suffer bouts of insomnia. It would take her years to completely overcome her addiction. 

In 1974, Joni Mitchell released the album Court and Spark. It was an instant hit. Charming both fans and critics with such signature songs as "Help Me," her only Top 10 Billboard single, Court and Spark was the pinnacle of Mitchell's commercial success. 

Mitchell's next album, 1975's The Hissing of Summer Lawns, however, would mark a transition to a more experimental, jazz-influenced sound. Alienating longtime fans and confusing critics, the album took a drubbing from the press. Rolling Stone praised the songwriting but lambasted the music, calling the album "a great collection of pop poems with a distracting soundtrack."  Mitchell feared for her career. In 1985, she told People, "If they had just said they'd hated it, I could have taken it," recalls Mitchell. "When other publications picked up the same attitude, I thought, 'I'll finish up this contract and quit making records.'"

Still, the singer-songwriter would not be deterred in her pursuit of musical experimentation. "You have two options," she told Cameron Crowe in 1979. "You can stay the same and protect the formula that gave you your initial success. They're going to crucify you for staying the same. If you change, they're going to crucify you for changing. [...] I'd rather be crucified for changing."

Regret over giving her daughter up for adoption in 1965 haunted Joni Mitchell her entire life. In 1971, the singer-songwriter would memorialize the tragedy in the heartbreaking song "Little Green" from her iconic album Blue. Mitchell told the Los Angeles Times in 1997 that she "worried constantly" about her daughter in the intervening years since their separation. 

Though Mitchell kept her secret for decades, a former art school classmate sold the story of her first pregnancy to a tabloid. Although Mitchell had secretly searched for her daughter without success for years, this betrayal by a one-time friend at last led to Mitchell's reunion with her long-lost daughter. Around the same time, Kelly Dale Anderson, now known as Kilauren Gibb, was searching for her birth parents. Her research led her to the unmistakable conclusion that she was the daughter of Joni Mitchell.

Mother and daughter met for the first time in 1997 and enjoyed a few years of happiness together. However, their relationship soured. In 2001, a physical altercation in which Mitchell allegedly slapped Gibb led to their estrangement. By the next decade, though, Mitchell and Gibb seemed to be on the road to reconciliation. Mitchell spoke about her relationship with her daughter in a 2013 interview with the Toronto Star. "She was pretty rough on me and conscripted my granddaughter, but we've worked through all of that. We reminisced about all the little tricks we pulled and the ways we can hurt each other. That's over." 

In March 2015, Joni Mitchell was found unconscious in her Los Angeles home. The singer was committed to intensive care, where she underwent tests which revealed she had suffered a crippling brain aneurysm. 

Although an early report from musician David Crosby indicated that she couldn't speak, Mitchell's representatives denied this, stating that she "was speaking, and speaking well" but that she wasn't able to walk and would require extensive therapy.

Mitchell was soon well enough to return home, but her recovery is ongoing. Largely disappearing from the public eye for several years, the legendary performer has recently been making appearances. In 2018, she was spotted at a concert by former beau James Taylor. A hopeful Taylor spoke about Mitchell with The Guardian in early 2020. "She's coming back — which is an amazing thing to be able to do — and I wonder what she has to tell us about that."